WE DO HAVE RULES!
At the last party at Rich's a guest made a complaint about someone touching her without her consent. I do take any such complaint serious so to make sure things don't get out of hand, here are our basic rules for you all to review and follow.
#1. NO, always means NO. we constantly reaffirm this particular rule with our guests . Consent is KEY to any actions while at a BWP. Now to elaborate. You do need to use your voice to make sure any violator knows you mean them. If you need to tell anyone twice by all means make sure you alert your party hosts and we will take action. The intensity of the violation will determine the action we take. If someone has just joined in or touched you before you have a chance to say no...they are still in violation, don't think you have to just accept it. Do let us know as soon as you can. Identify the violator as best as you can. Some are very innocent actions others outright bold and uncaring or rude.
#2 Be nice and always ask before you touch. Not everyone is acceptable to everyone so understand there absolutely .may be some rejection, just accept this.
This applies to men and women. Even if someone is in a scene where they have a cock in their mouth, ass, pussy and one in each hand does NOT mean you can just reach in and feel a tit. Stand back and stay out of that scene. Best to not even approach until an obvious break in the action and use words first before any actions. Get approval.
#3. No cameras or cell phones out at anytime for any reason in any playspace. Go outside or a common area w no play going onto use a phone. If we see one out we will confiscate it and inspect any pictures or videos. If in violation we will eliminate the pics and you will be removed and barred from any and all future parties.
#4. Do not get drunk..alcohol is accepted but getting drunk is not. If we notice you are drunk or acting like you are or we suspect you are, or engage in any unruly behavior in our opinion you will be asked to leave.
#5 Do not allow persons under 21 to consume alcohol.
#6 We reserve the right to refuse entry to anyone for any reason we deem reasonable.
#7 You will clean up after yourself and NOT leave used rubbers on any floor or bed..This is a gross, major no no and you may not be invited back. Take responsibility for yourself.
#8. Use chucks /pads. If you drench a bed don't just leave it for the next person. Seek clean sheets and let a BWP host know right away.
#9 Drugs are not allowed on any premise.
If 420 is legal in various areas and may be allowed seek a BWP host or home owner to seek the designated area.
#10. Always smoke in appropriate designated areas. Never inside.
#11. Solicitation of prostitution is NEVER allowed and should be reported immediately to hosts and violators will be removed immediately.
#12. Confidentiality is key to the lifestyle. Respect other people's privacy on the outside and keep the fun on the inside.
#13. You agree you are not offended by nudity, adult themes and sexual situations. You acknowledge that by attending you are ok with the possibility of being involved in a sexual situation.
#14 You will clean and wipe down any equipment or furniture you may use.
#15, You agree to read and understand these rules and it will be assumed you have read these before you attend any BWP event
#16. You agree to have fun and give and receive pleasure as best you can while at a BWP event.
We will provide some protection , lube and pads. BUT, if you have specific needs as to these items please bring your own. Do not stock up and load your pockets for your own needs.
This is an amended list of rules. I will be updating the rules and posting the new amended rules on the website very soon and they will be printed out and displayed at every party in the future.